Individual Therapy for
the Patterns You Carry
INDIVIDUAL THERAPY IN SANTA MONICA
Individual therapy can help you better understand the protective strategies, old wounds, and relational patterns that shape how you move through your life.
You may recognize this
You find yourself reacting in ways you don't fully understand. You may feel overwhelmed, shut down, anxious, or stuck in patterns that repeat across relationships.
You might:
• Struggle with boundaries
• Feel pulled to take care of others or lose yourself in relationships
• Experience cycles of self-criticism, shame, or disconnection
• Feel unclear about your needs, identity, or direction
Part of you wants something different-but another part keeps things the same.
A RELATIONAL, EXPERIENTIAL APPROACH
My work is direct, engaged, and relational. I draw from attachment theory, Relational Life Therapy, Pia Mellody's principles, IFS Parts Work, and AEDP-style emotional processing to help you understand your inner world and create meaningful, lasting change.
Therapy gives you space to slow down and understand what's been shaping your life.
Together, we'll explore the protective parts you've developed, the attachment patterns you learned, and the shame that keeps you stuck - so you can build self - trust and learn new ways of relating.
A relational approach
to individual therapy
My work is also influenced by experiential approaches such as Internal Family Systems, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), and Pia Mellody’s model of childhood trauma.
This means we don't only talk about your experiences - we work with them in real time.
Together, we:
• Slow down emotional experiences
• Build your capacity to stay with what you feel
• Differentiate between protective reactions and deeper emotions
• Create space for new emotional experiences to emerge
Over time, this allows for a different relationship to yourself - one that is more stable, compassionate. and grounded.
Working with emotion, not just talking about it
What we can work on
Anxiety and
overwhelm
Shame and
self-criticism
Relationship
patterns
Boundaries
Trauma and
attachment wounds
Life
transitions
What change can look like
Change is not about becoming someone else.
It is about:
• Understanding the patterns you carry
• Developing a different relationship to your emotions
• Learning how to respond, rather than react
• Feeling more grounded, clear, and connected
Over time, this creates more freedom - in how you relate to yourself and to others.
What Clients Have Shared
When you're ready, the next step is simple
If this resonates, I invite you to reach out.
We can begin by understanding what is bringing you in, what you are hoping for, and determine whether this work feels like the right fit.